I had some people come to me to ask for help in relationships today and it made me think about my own relationships past and present. Everyone changes and yet we are so drawn to comfort that we tend to go back to things even when they aren’t healthy for us. We are not the same people we were yesterday and we will change even more tomorrow. It is important to remember that it isn’t about you. Think about where the other person is coming from and how they’re feeling. We have to choose our hard on a daily basis. Control what we can in our lives and remember that not everything can be altered. We all have opportunities for growth. The question is whether we take them or not. What do you do when you’re backed into a corner? What are you going to do differently next time? Are you going to evolve or go back to your comfort zone?
Life As I Know It 